JUST IN: Nollywood actress-turned-evangelist Tonto Dikeh has questioned why some church brothers put little effort into pursuing women during courtship.
IKEJA, LAGOS , Tonto Dikeh has generated reactions online after sharing her views on courtship among Christian singles, particularly on how some church brothers approach relationships. In a post shared on social media, Dikeh questioned why some men in church believe women do not require gifts or intentional efforts during courtship.
The actress said some church brothers rely heavily on spiritual expressions while paying little attention to practical actions that strengthen relationships. According to her, statements such as “God sent me to you” should not replace genuine effort, communication and thoughtful gestures during the process of pursuing a partner.
Dikeh argued that using spiritual language to cover emotional laziness distorts the character of God. She also criticised the phrase, “God told me you are my wife,” saying it should not become an excuse to avoid intentionality and practical effort in relationships. Her comments quickly attracted reactions from social media users, with many agreeing while others offered different opinions on Christian courtship.
The actress has increasingly used her platform to discuss faith, relationships and personal development since embracing evangelism. Discussions around expectations in Christian relationships, including gift giving and expressions of affection, frequently generate strong opinions among young Nigerians and church communities.
The development means conversations about modern Christian courtship and relationship expectations are likely to continue online and within church circles. Dikeh’s comments have again brought attention to the balance between spirituality and practical effort in relationships, a topic that remains important to many Christian singles.
