LAGOS, NIGERIA – Tunde Perry has shared details of an unusual arrangement he says has helped keep his marriage strong for the past 10 years, revealing that his wife allows him one day every month to spend time alone and unwind.
Speaking in a recent interview, Perry explained that he and his wife agreed on the arrangement as a way of balancing family life with personal time. According to him, the date is chosen at the beginning of each month, giving him an opportunity to step away from his daily responsibilities and relax.
“My wife gives me one free day in a month to go out and chill. We’ve been married for about 10 years, so we understand ourselves,” he said.
Perry added that the monthly break allows him to enjoy uninterrupted personal time before returning to his family responsibilities. He described the arrangement as one built on trust and mutual understanding, stressing that open communication has played a key role in sustaining their relationship.
He also encouraged couples to develop similar levels of understanding in their marriages, saying every relationship should be based on agreements that work for both partners. In a light-hearted remark, he joked that having multiple wives would make such an arrangement difficult to maintain, asking, “How will I go out next month to enjoy again?”
The comments have generated mixed reactions on social media. While some users praised the couple’s approach, saying personal space can strengthen relationships, others argued that every marriage is different and that what works for one couple may not be suitable for another.
Relationship counsellors have often noted that healthy marriages benefit from trust, communication and respect for each partner’s individual needs. They also say spending occasional time apart for rest or personal interests can help reduce stress, provided both partners agree on the arrangement.
Extra News Nigeria reports that Perry’s remarks have added to ongoing conversations about modern marriage and the importance of balancing family commitments with personal well-being. Many social media users described his approach as a practical example of how couples can create their own rules based on mutual respect rather than public expectations.
As discussions continue online, Perry’s experience serves as a reminder that successful marriages often depend on honest communication and agreements that both partners willingly embrace.
